It’s a new year. We have brand new hopes and dreams. We are looking over our shoulders at all that went down last year and resolving to not make the same mistakes twice. We survey the landscape of our lives and take inventory of all that is missing. We are determined to filled in all those gaps, but deep down we know there’s not a snowball’s chance we are going to arrive at December 31, 2019, with a perfect life with all the pieces in place either. Not in this life.